It's My Party 1996

Over 2,900 LGBT-themed movies and TV shows featuring gay storylines, characters, or actors.

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This title is in jest really but, these are movies that "every gay should know" according to, well, every gay who knows them :-P
This list is largely movies that I've enjoyed over the years but some that I've been told I should see.

Here’s the link to their article…

https://www.out.com/film/movies-about-aids-hiv#rebelltitem1

Gay movies and shows

Films about/for Lesbian Gay Bisexual Transgender Queer