[8.3/10] At the beginning of the season, I griped about how I was no longer interested in Jamie or Roy, and I didn’t really like Dr. Sharon. Well, jokes on me, because this episode does great things with all three of them.
By god, I didn’t think I’d end up feeling for Jamie. I really didn’t. But watching him look on in envy and sadness at Sam’s conversation with his dad, and the fatherly pride that comes with it, is full of pathos. So is Sam getting his dad tickets to the big game at Wembley and the man showing up with his buddies all decked out in the gear for the opposing team. It’s incredibly cathartic when Jamie finally stands up to his dad, and even cocks him one, when his father is being a total prick, not just to him, but to the entire team. My hope is that it’s a turning point for Jamie in separating himself from his dad’s B.S.
I was likewise touched by Roy’s story here. When he was called in to answer for niece’s cursing, I thought this was going to be a wacky sitcom subplot. “Roy has to use a swear job so his niece won’t get in trouble or something.” Instead, the writers went to some place much more real. Roy telling his niece that as much as he loves spending time with her, he’s worried he’s infecting her with the worst parts of himself is heartbreaking. It’s equally and oppositely wholesome when he tells her she’s better than him, and means it, and she responds that she’s his best self. It speaks to a love and confidence between niece and uncle that is almost unbearably sweet and true.
So it has extra meaning when Roy, of all people, goes to comfort Jamie after such a difficult confrontation, being that best self, making himself worthy of being the man his little niece sees him as. It’s a story of two men who’ve always had issues doing better, to support one another and for themselves, even when it’s hard, and one of the most potent emotional moments this show’s ever pulled off.
The same goes for the interludes between Dr. Sharon and Ted. The bit with Ted looking after “Doc” after a car hits her on his bike is a little silly. But it’s a good time for their sunny and serious repartee, and for the two to open up just a little bit. I love the idea that the key for Ted to opn up and be vulnerable with Dr. Sharon is for her to do the same with him. She’s embarrassed about the wine bottles she has out, but still tells Ted that she was and is scared after her accident, not for a pep talk, but just because she trusts him and needed to tell someone.
That show of vulnerability begets another, as we have the most wounded admission we’ve ever had from Ted to date. He tells Dr. Sharon, after another tough moment, that his father committed suicide when Ted was sixteen. Jason Sudekis does a tremendous job communicating how hurt Ted is and how hard it is to say, but also how cathartic it is to get it out. It’s a dose of realness behind a pretnerantually chipper character, and I love the way the show brings the two of them into a trusted space with one another.
For all that heaviness, I also love the lightness and joy of the Rebecca/Sam story. The idea of people going on a blind date who, it turns out, know each other, is a silly romcom-y. But the two performers have such great chemistry, to where you 100% buy the nervousness but also the joy of the time they’re sharing. It’s a peculiar situation (and I do hope the show digs deeper into the “I’m your boss” element that would be a complicating factor), but it’s also easy to root for the two of them given their easy, mutually supportive air with one another. The fact that Sam effectively communicates to Rebecca through his interview, speaking to the value of trying being worth it even if it turns out badly, is the icing on the cake. As familiar as some of the trappings here are, the romantic elements work here, and are a delight.
That just leaves the game itself. I appreciate that for all the magnitude of AFC Richmond making it this far and getting to play a game in Wembley stadium, this isn’t a surprise triumph, but rather a drubbing by a much superior team. The loss hurts, but also feels true to life, which heps balance out some of the wish fulfillment/hugbox elements in the rest of the series. Nate getting a red card, Coach Beard seeming genuinely upset by the beating, and the whole team seeming deflated gives the thing weight.
But it’s counterbalanced by the camaraderie of Isaac giving Sam the annual haircut. The needle drops are perfect, and the plain communal fun of them watching Isaac work his magic is infectious.
All in all, this is one of the best episodes of Ted Lasso to date, and a tribute to the show’s ability to take characters and storylines I was shaky on and spin them into gold.
It's interesting because we should find it weird for all reasons Rebecca listed during the episode but because this show is so good at fully realising characters, the Sam/Rebecca thing actually works.
I may have fist-pumped when Roy did what he did at the end. He is the best man.
Very strong and emotional once again as they dig deeper into Ted and emotions of the players. Big moment for Jamie and Roy as well, felt just right.
THIS SHOW WAS SUPPOSED TO BE A COMEDY THEY TOLD ME TED LASSO WAS A COMEDY SO WHY AM I CRYING
What a episode… holy fucking shit. 10/10.
the best episode of the second season so far.
incredibly funny and truly emotional
And that's how you suddenly get onto a deeper layer for Ted's attitude towards others, out of his own personal history (as he himself mentioned in 2x02: "My father was a lot harder on himself than he ever was on me")
Scattered thoughts:
Loved the spontaeous sharing moment pre-game.
The Roy-Jamie hug: even if the latter didn't have much space this season, he had a great growth.
Rolling Stones, Oasis... going hard with music choices
This show is what we needed during this pandemic.
I cried, Just two bros huggin it out, Man to man, It was beautiful
Some hate there being more Roy but I'm firmly in the other camp. I love his interactions and his batman voice doesn't bother me at all.
No 3-D character can hug like that! Nice job Roy.
THE TARTT PUNCH!!! I was so hoping for that to happen, and it did. So satisfying. Another great episode.
I'm glad I wasn't wrong for seeing red flags in Sharon's adversarial style of therapy.
My first clue was having her clients sit directly opposite from her. A therapist should try to never do that because it triggers defensive fight-or-flight responses in our "lizard" brains. It's also helpful when dealing with conflicts in relationships. Try to sit next to each other or, at most, at a 90-degree angle when talking things through.
Like I said last comment - this show keeps getting better. I've never been so choked up at a comedy show when Roy hugged Jamie after the game. OMG.
Don't really care about the Sam / Rebecca thing, but interested to see where it goes.
I'm not feeling this Sam/Rebecca storyline not because of their age difference or working relationship but because they have no lovers chemistry!
This show supposed to be comedy one, not that:")
good episode, they had to just ruin it with the whole sam x rebecca thing. no matter how you look at it that relationship is fucking weird.
ted needs to quit the team (he doesnt contribute anything coaching wise) and move back to america to live with his son. win win situation imo
Nah... I don't care how you dress it, this relationship is super fucking weird. It trips way too many red flags.
Wow. What an episode. I love how this show takes on toxic masculinity and knocks it right out the park. I could have cried when Roy went to Jamie and we also get an insight into Ted's heart as well.
Sam is a beautiful man and not only physically, go for it Rebecca!
Her delivery on the line after learning his age though. 'oh my god I'm a pedophile'. I legitimately sprayed my drink everywhere. Hannah Waddingham is a delight.
Another great episode. This show makes a simple moment such as a hug between two characters, really powerful. Goldstein's a very good writer.
Also Oasis and Keane back-to-back! Music choices were amazing.
The good:
Some strong emotional moments.
Some good laughs.
Ted was superb in this episode.
That confession scene was great.
Some decent music cues.
The bad:
Roy Kent
The hordes of hypocrites deciding this age gap/power disparity relationship is fine because yay!
Roy Kent.
The football is now terribly portrayed. Why even bother showing it if you're not going to make an effort? Trim 10 minutes off the runtime or spend it on what the show does well.
Roy Kent's silly Muppet voice.
That cringeworthy haircut scene.
Roy Kent.
Sadly this show has gone bad, just like their team.
Easily the best episode of the season, amazing payoffs on almost every storyline, somehow I'm not even mad at the 45 minutes runtime. So much better than the entirety of the first half of the season (though I know the season is a slow burner, but still). And damn, the chemistry between Sam and Rebecca is through the roof.
I see I'm in the minority but I actually like Sam and Rebecca together.
That Roy/Jamie hug is one of the best scenes of the season so far.
“I’m as good as the best you” - I’m not crying you’re crying
Easily the best episode of the season. Barring the haircut scene it felt like the first season vibes were back. Hug between Roy and Jamie was intense. Wish they fleshed out Phoebe and swearing a bit better... maybe it will recurr.
Loved this episode, got the tears going a little
Shout by OzymandiasBlockedParent2021-09-10T10:01:42Z
"My father was a lot harder on himself than he ever was on me."
It all makes sense now.